The ExtraWoman: Meet The Woman Who Only Sleeps With Married Men

Most women looking for love want a boyfriend who is at least a free agent. But Clare Jenkins chooses only MARRIED men.

Ever since her relationship broke down four years ago, sports manager Clare decided to exclusively date other people’s husbands.
And the 32-year-old single mum reckons it ENHANCES their marriages.
Clare said: “People reading this will brand me a brazen whore who has no care or thought for the wives of the men I so enjoy dating and — when I like them enough — sleeping with.
“But I do not want to be perceived as a marriage wrecker.
“Instead, I feel I make married men so much more satisfied in their lives that I actually enhance their marriage — they go home far more happy and are nicer to their wives.”
Here, in a frank interview, Clare — who meets men through an internet dating site for married people — lifts the lid on life as a mistress and the tricks attached men use to keep their steamy second life under wraps.
She says: “The reason I only sleep with married men is simple — I do not want any man having control over my life.
“If I was dating single guys they might fall in love with me and want to move into my home.
Clare, from Richmond, south-west London, believes it also means she can focus on her family — her two daughters aged 13 and four.
She explains: “By sleeping with married men, I get all the fun of dating interesting guys and none of the responsibility of having a relationship.
“The majority of women have no idea about their husbands’ secret lives.
“Nearly every single one of the married men who contact me say their wife does not understand them — that old cliché — and their lives, especially their s*x lives, have become very stale and boring.”
Clare, who draws the line at dating newly-weds, continues: “I go for men who have been married a while, who are effectively looking for my help.
“I can clearly see what the men get out of dating me. They get a slim, attractive woman who hangs on their every word and is genuinely interested in their lives.
“If the relationship progresses to bed, then they have an exciting new, young partner who is happy to do things their wives might never imagine in an amazing fantasy world.

‘The internet has opened up the world of infidelity to men’ … Clare Jenkins meets men on dating site.

In that fantasy world, Clare says she “transforms herself” and declines to tell the men about the fact she has children or where she lives. “In my normal life I am a casual dresser, but when I meet my married men, I put on a beautiful, fitted dress and high heels. My make-up is immaculate, my hair is beautiful.
“I become someone else — a glamorous lady who is treated wonderfully by the men she meets. They are usually extremely polite and well-mannered.
“I allow them to be very masculine. So many women today are trying to boss their husbands and dominate them. I become soft and feminine when I am with my married men and they love it.
“I pick the men I sleep with very carefully, and I always weed out the men who only want s*x. I am by no means an easy conquest. Not all my relationships are s*xual, but it is exciting when it reaches that level.”
Clare continues: “I usually start by meeting them for coffee, then if I like them it progresses to a meal — and then if the relationship moves on we go to a hotel. It’s all part of the fantasy — I wouldn’t usually go to these places, and the men are happy to pay.”
She says: “Usually I see about four men at one time. I meet them through the website Illicit Encounters.
“The internet has opened up the world of infidelity to men — they can now meet attractive, single women like me at the click of a mouse.
“We communicate via email or text — I bet a lot of women don’t know their husbands have another, secret phone, the one they use to call and text me.
“I suspect many of the men on the website are seeing several women at a time — I insist on condoms, as s*xual health is extremely important and I would never compromise myself.
“Of course I know there is a real stigma to what I do. But there are so few guys out there now who aren’t married or in relationships, and I don’t want to take on someone else’s problems.
“I feel really flattered if a guy says to me, ‘I thought I didn’t know how to feel like this any more’ — but I know he won’t leave his wife.
“I don’t think about their wives. Yet I’m not saying to myself, ‘Hee hee, I can get your man and you know nothing about it.’
“After all, it’s not my fault they want to see me.
“Maybe one day I’ll stop. But I think I’ll wait until my kids are grown up, and I have more time for a committed relationship with a single guy. In the meantime, I am having a lot of fun.
“My advice? If I was a wife, I’d want to know why my husband spent so much time on the internet…”
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PHOTO: First Lady Patience Jonathan Dazzles in Pink

The First Lady of the Federal Republic of Nigeria’s love for diamonds is no secret but it seems as though she has taken things to the next level.

Patience Jonathan was recently spotted by her husband’s side in a pink kaftan generously adorned with crystals and precious stones.
She accessorized with a diamond necklace, earrings and a festive feathered hat also adorned with crystals.
The president definately has a coy smile on his face.
Naij

Sandy Hook Elementary School Students Face First Day Of Classes Since Shooting

MONROE, Conn. — The youngsters who survived the massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary returned to class Thursday for the first time since the shooting rampage, settling in at their old, familiar desks but in a different school in a different town.
Classes resumed for the first time since last month's shooting in Newtown, where a gunman killed 20 first-graders and six educators.
With their original school still being treated as a crime scene, the more than 400 students are attending classes at a refurbished school in the neighboring town of Monroe. Law enforcement officers have been guarding the new school, and by the reckoning of police, it is "the safest school in America."
The school district said parents who want to be close to their children are welcome to visit and stay in classrooms or an auditorium throughout the day. Parents were encouraged to have their children take the bus to help them return to familiar routines.
Still, Newtown Superintendent Janet Robinson said officials will do their best to make the students feel at ease.
"We will go to our regular schedule," she said. "We will be doing a normal day."
Returning students, teachers and administrators were met by a large police presence on a sunny and cold day with temperatures hovering near 10 degrees Several police officers were guarding the entrance to the school, and were checking IDs of parents dropping off children.
On Wednesday, the students and their families were welcomed at an open house at their new school, which was formerly the Chalk Hill Middle School in Monroe but renamed as the Sandy Hook Elementary School. Students received gift boxes with toys inside and shared joyful reunions with teachers.
Teams of workers, many of them volunteers, prepared the Chalk Hill school and even raised bathroom floors so the smaller elementary school students can reach the toilets. The students' backpacks and other belongings that were left behind following the shooting were taken to the new school to make them feel at home.
Students found the same chairs and desks, when possible. Their classroom walls were painted the same colors and hung with the same pictures. Other details, such as the location of bookshelves and cubby holes, were replicated as much as possible.
One father, Vinny Alvarez, took a moment at the open house to thank his third-grade daughter's teacher, Courtney Martin, who protected the class from a rampaging gunman by locking her classroom door and keeping the children in a corner.
"Everybody there thanked her in their own way," he said.
The gunman, Adam Lanza, also killed his mother at the home they shared in Newtown before driving to the school and gunning down students and educators, including the school's principal. Lanza fatally shot himself as police arrived. Police haven't released any details about a motive.
Numerous police officers on Wednesday guarded the outside of the Monroe school, which is about 7 miles from the old school, and told reporters to stay away.
"I think right now it has to be the safest school in America," Monroe police Lt. Keith White said.
Teachers attended staff meetings at the new school on Wednesday morning and were visited by Gov. Dannel P. Malloy before the open house, White said.
Robinson said Chalk Hill School has been transformed into a "cheerful" place for the surviving students to resume normal school routines. She said mental health counselors continue to be available for anyone who needs them.
During the open house, Alvarez said his 8-year-old daughter also got to pick out a stuffed animal to take home from the school library.
"I'm not worried about her going back," he said of his daughter Cynthia. "The fear kind of kicks back in a little bit, but we're very excited for her and we got to see many, many kids today. The atmosphere was very cheerful."
Several signs welcoming the Sandy Hook students to their new school were posted along the road leading to the school in a rural, mostly residential neighborhood. One said "Welcome Sandy Hook Elementary Kids," while a similar sign added "You are in our prayers."
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Governor Amaechi sacks commissioner, appoints six female Permanent Secretaries

Governor Rotimi Amaechi

Rivers state Commissioner for Special Duties, Mr Emeka Wogu has been sacked by the state Governor, Rotimi Amaechi.
DailyPost gathered that the sacked Commissioner would be replaced by Mr. Omunakwe Dickson.
Gov. Amaechi disclosed this at the swearing-in ceremony of six permanent secretaries, all females, into the state’s Civil Service Commission on Wednesday.
Amaechi however emphasised that the permanent secretaries were appointed on merit, urging them to be fair and just while carrying out their duties.
The new sworn-in permanent secretaries are Dr Offor Nnesochi, Mrs Iragunima
C. M., Clara Gogo-Princewill, Mrs Amie Nemi-Iwo, Mrs Wihioka Comfort and Dr Justina Jumbo.
“A civil servant is supposed to be a non-politician but in the Nigerian context, all Nigerians or nearly all Nigerians are politicians, nearly all and that is because the economy is not productive.
“So, the only productive part of the economy is government and that is because government takes money from oil and everybody wants to be part of
the sharing.” Amechi said
He warned the new permanent secretaries not to be involved in any corrupt practices.
“We looked at the civil service and there were too few women that were permanent secretaries, we felt that we should appoint some women to balance the position and that we have done,” He added.
The Governor affirmed that he has directed the Chairman of the state’s Civil Service and the Head of Service to put measures in place to promote civil servants who perform well and punish those who did not do well.
He warned that only those deserving promotion should be promoted.
DailyPost

Davido’s father and new wife now separated

Billionaire Dr Deji Adeleke is separated from his wife just two years after they got married. We are still investigating the reasons why the couple decided to go their separate ways.
Family and business sources we have spoken to in the last 48hours though confirmed the separation but refused to go into details.
Few days back Dr Adeleke hosted his Annual family Thanksgiving and his wife was missing which made a lot of people to ask questions. A top member of the family however confirmed the separation to us.
 DailyPost

Abducted Gombe Lawmaker Freed

The member representing Gombe North constituency in the State House of Assembly, Alhaji Jalo Ganga, who was kidnapped at about 5.00 a.m. on Sunday while returning from his morning prayers by unknown gunmen, has been released.
Ganga was released on Wednesday night by his captors, and was reunited with his family at about 10.30 p.m.
Speaking to newsmen in the house of the lawmaker on Thursday, the legislator’s younger brother, Malam Abdulkadir Mohammed-Yelwa, said his brother arrived home on a motorcycle at about 10 p.m. on Wednesday.
Mohammed-Yelwa said the legislator was received by members of his family, friends and relations who were happy on his safe release and thanked God for answering their prayers.
“We are very happy seeing our brother. He has returned and met with his family; but right now he is not home.
“He came back and told people not to worry that he had arrived safely. May be later in the day or tomorrow, you will see him and talk with him. We thank everybody who helped us in prayers,’’ he said.
Shortly after he met with his family, Ganga went to the Government House.
The state Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO), Mr Fwaje Atajiri, said the lawmaker was released unconditionally, adding that he had gone to Government House.
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Wife Seeks Divorce Two Days Into Marriage

This might make the Kim Kardashians and Britney Spears of this world green with envy as they now have a contemporary here in Nigeria who holds the unofficial title of shortest-lived marriage – two days.
It was a ‘win-win’ situation for Babaginda Dan-Auta of Maraban Jos and Laure Sulaiman when they got their wish yesterday from a Kaduna Sharia Court II, Magajin Gari, to dissolve their two-day-old marriage but under the condition that the bride, Laure, pay back the dowry she collected.
While Laure had on December 10 last year approached the court to dissolve the marriage, saying she was no longer in love with Dan-Auta, the groom claimed that she lied about the number of kids she had from a previous union.
According to Laure’s husband, though she told him she had three kids, he later found out that she had given birth to eight children.
He noted that the woman left their home two days after the wedding, asking him to divorce her.
In her own arguement, Laure had told the court: “I don’t love him and I want this court to grant me divorce. I am ready to return the N10,000 he paid as dowry. I cannot be obedient to him as a wife.’’
Dan-Auta disputed the wife’s claim on the amount paid as dowry.
He said that he paid N17, 000 and not N10,000.
The Khadi, Malam Ibrahim Inuwa, had adjourned the case three times before granting the request for divorce.
He had earlier given the couple up to yesterday to reconcile their differences but the couple opted for divorce instead saying they were unable to resolve their differences.
Inuwa, therefore, ordered Laure to pay back the N17,000 dowry by tomorrow (January 4) following which the union could be legally dissolved.
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