Top 10 Mistakes Women Make In Bed

Most women like to think of themselves as great in bed. That’s probably because the guy they’re with hasn’t complained about their performance. So what do guys find so awful they’d consider a woman a bad lay? Start with these 10 mistakes women make in bed.

1. She doesn’t communicate

One of the main keys to having better intimacy is communication; however, many women don’t focus on their own s*xuality and assume that a man will come along to teach them everything they should know. Some women don’t show their emotions and fall victim to the idea that their partner will automatically know or sense what’s going on with her. The bottom line is that you will not know what she likes best if she never tells you.
2. She shows no enthusiasm
A woman’s s*xual enthusiasm also communicates her interest in you. She doesn’t have to bounce off the walls, but she should at least be interested in s*x and show a willingness to go out of her comfort zone and try new things sometimes.
3. She lets you do whatever
Most of us don’t like to have s*x with a corpse. When a woman just just lies there, makes no noise and lets you do whatever you want in bed, it’s a huge turnoff because you feel like you’re more into it than she is.
4. She has poor hygiene
Most women care immensely about how they present themselves; however, there are some who do not and it carries over to the bedroom. Women with poor hygiene, i.e., not shaving anywhere, displaying unkempt hair, having bad breath and foul odor from their intimate areas are not desirable and are often seen as disgusting and very inconsiderate.

5. She pretends to be sick
Women are good at faking sickness or headache just to avoid having s*x with their man. These same women fail to realize that too many excuses will send a man looking elsewhere for satisfaction.
6. She’s not willing to learn or experiment
These women aren’t open to experimentation and aren’t creative enough in the bedroom. They don’t appear to be very adventurous and only want to have s*x in the missionary position.
7. She ‘s not confident
Women need to understand that men rarely look at their flaws (stretch marks, a little jiggly belly) during s*x. A woman who is overly concerned about her appearance and hides her body during s*x, or refuses to enjoy certain s*xual positions because she fears what a guy might think of her body can often dampen the mood.
8. She talks too much
Everyone knows that women like to talk a lot, but it’s not the best activity to do in bed. Conversation has its place, but no one, especially men, really wants to talk about the kids, grocery shopping, or what you did that day during intercourse. Talking during s*x should be reserved only for dirty talk and whispering sweet nothings.
9. She stops doing what you like
She begins doing something you’re into, your perfectly aroused and enjoying yourself and what does she do? She stops what she’s doing and rushes off to the bathroom. Lots of women don’t understand how this can totally destroy the mood.
10. She never initiates lovemaking

It’s an old stereotype: men lead, women follow. Although most women like men to be dominant and take the lead s*xually, it doesn’t have to be the guy who is

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Primate Dismisses Calls For Taxes On Churches

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Primate of All Nigeria Anglican Communion, Most Rev. Nicholas Okoh, on Saturday dismissed calls in some quarters for Churches in the country to be mandated to pay tax to government.
Okoh said this in Abuja at the 2012 Carnival for Christ, organised by the Abuja Diocese of the Anglican Communion.
The Carnival for Christ is an annual gathering of the various archdeaconries in the diocese to praise and worship God.
The Primate said Churches in the country were contributing immensely to the growth of the economy through their programmes and activities by engaging many unemployed youths.
He added that “it is ridiculous for anyone to suggest that Churches should be mandated to pay taxes to government.
“It is unfortunate to hear that someone will suggest that Churches should start paying taxes to government.
“Considering what Churches are doing for the country, I want to say that government should instead, fund some of our activities and give some kind of funds to Churches.’’
Earlier in his message at the event, the primate had urged Christians not to relent in their service to God.
He also urged them to believe in the power of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, noting that it was the foundation of the Christian faith.
He said that God at the appointed time would intervene in the challenges confronting the nation and expressed the hope that Christendom would emerge stronger and better in the days ahead.
“Christians in the country should pray for the leadership of the nation to overcome the challenge of insecurity,’’ he stressed.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that five archdeaconries in the Abuja diocese participated in the 2012 edition of the carnival.
In a related development, the Catholic Archbishop of Abuja, John Cardinal Onaiyekan, had urged Christians not to be discouraged by the recent attacks in parts of the country.
Onaiyekan said this on Saturday at the official dedication of the newly completed Catholic Pro-Cathedral, Abuja.
Speaking in his first public appearance after his consecration as a cardinal in Rome, he said that the leadership of the Church in Nigeria would not relent in erecting new structures to facilitate the worship of the Lord in spite of the insecurity in parts of the country.
Onaiyekan said that the Church would only grow stronger and united in the worship of God.
The dedication of the new catholic Pro-Cathedral Church hall was performed by the new cardinal and assisted by the auxiliary Bishop of the diocese, Most Rev. Anslem Umoren and other senior priests in the archdiocese.
The event was also attended by some members of the catholic community in Abuja and its environ.
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Gay Bishop: Anglican Church in Nigeria Threatens To Break Away From Church Of England

The Church of Nigeria Anglican Communion has threatened to breakaway from the Church of England over the decision of the later to drop opposition to gay bishops in civil partnerships.
The announcement, from the Church’s House of Bishops, would allow gay clergy to become bishops if they promise to be celibate. The move that did not go down well with Conservative evangelical Anglicans.
Arising from its 2013 annual retreat, held at the Ibru Centre, Agbarha Otor, Delta State, the Bishops of the Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion) said they heard with dismay, the news of the recent action of the Church of England House of Bishops.
The Primate, Church of Nigeria, the Most Revd Nicholas Okoh said “the decision to permit homosexual clergy in civil partnerships to now be considered for the episcopacy is one step removed from the moral precipice that we have already witnessed in The Episcopal Church (USA) and the Anglican Church of Canada.
“When the Church of England failed to exercise its legal and moral right to opt out of the civil partnerships legislation in 2005 warnings were given in England and around the Anglican Communion that this was a first step towards the recognition and institutionalization of behaviour contrary to the plain teaching of scripture and reaffirmed for all Anglicans by the 1998 Lambeth Conference in its Resolution 1.10.
“Sadly those warnings were ignored and we now face the next step in a process that could very well shatter whatever hopes we had for healing and reconciliation within our beloved Communion.
“We are also grieved by the timing of this decision coming only days before the retirement of Archbishop Rowan Williams and before Dr. Justin Welby becomes the new Archbishop of Canterbury.
“We urge the House of Bishops to reconsider their decision so as to allow for a full, prayerful and sober reflection on the call on all clergy, especially bishops, to live holy lives and not encourage what are, at best, morally ambiguous partnerships that make it impossible for a bishop to be a wholesome example to the flock. Especially, since the supposed assurances of celibacy, while perhaps well intentioned, are both unworkable and unenforceable.
“As a House of Bishops, while we acknowledge that we all fall short of God’s call to holiness, we dare not compromise the clear teaching of our Lord on faithfulness within Holy Matrimony and chastity outside of it.
“Sadly we must also declare that, if the Church of England continues in this contrary direction we must further separate ourselves from it and we are prepared to take the same actions as those prompted by the decisions of The Episcopal Church (USA) and the Anglican Church of Canada ten years ago.”
The issue has split the church since 2003 amid a row over gay cleric Jeffrey John becoming Bishop of Reading.
Mr John, now Dean of St Albans, was forced to withdraw from the role shortly after having initially accepted it, following protests from traditionalists.
He was also a candidate for Bishop of Southwark in 2010 but was rejected. Evidence emerged that this was because of his sexual orientation.
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Firearms Training CEO: If Gun Violence Prevention Goes ‘One Inch Further, I’m Going To Start Killing People’

By Rebecca Leber

Tactical Response CEO James Yeager

Pro-gun extremists have reached hysterics since reports that Vice President Joe Biden’s task force will consider executive orders to combat gun violence. The CEO of Tennessee-based Tactical Response, a firearms training company, delivered threats on YouTube that White House action would “spark a civil war.” CEO James Yeager said if gun violence prevention goes any further he would “start killing people”:

I’m telling you that if that happens, it’s going to spark a civil war, and I’ll be glad to fire the first shot. I’m not putting up with it. You shouldn’t put up with it. And I need all you patriots to start thinking about what you’re going to do, load your damn mags, make sure your rifle’s clean, pack a backpack with some food in it and get ready to fight. I’m not fucking putting up with this. I’m not letting my country be ruled by a dictator. I’m not letting anybody take my guns! If it goes one inch further, I’m going to start killing people.

The video was replaced with an edited version, but Raw Story has the original:

The Drudge Report only fed conservative outrage yesterday by comparing President Obama to Hitler, and Stalin. And NRA board member Ted Nugent claimed gun owners are the true victims, likening them to civil rights hero Rosa Parks.
The reality is no one will take away Yeager’s guns. Any executive order would likely strengthen background checks, a safety measure most gun owners endorse. A ban on assault weapons and the gun show loophole would require congressional action.

Update

TPM reports that Yeager’s training credentials are fraudulent. “I have confirmed with our Handgun Unit that Mr. Yeager is not a Department of Safety and Homeland Security certified handgun instructor and Tactical Response is not a department certified school,” a DHS spokesperson told them.
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Police Shot A Man Weeks To His Wedding

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In a rather tragic development, a 35-year-old man, Mr Olusola Adegbegha, was on Tuesday, killed when he was hit by a bullet fired by a policeman attached to the Mokola Division in Oyo State.
According to Adegbegha’s brother, the deceased left Oluyole Estate area where he was temporarily staying with his younger sister around 5.00 a.m. only for the family to later find out that he was dead. The brother, Sunkanmi Owoeye, said the family was informed by the police that Adegbegha was stopped at Recreation Club area for a search, but proved difficult, which made a corporal to take him to the station.
Owoeye said the police claimed that on getting to the station, Adegbegha reversed and zoomed off after the corporal got down from his car to open the gate of the police station, which reportedly made the corporal shoot at the car. The bullet was said to have penetrated the rear trafficator of his Mazda 626 car and gone through the back seat into the driver’s seat, before hitting the deceased on the back and thigh.
Owoeye also said the security guard of Group Medical Hospital, situated beside the police station, also informed the family that the deceased came to knock on the hospital gate, telling him that he had been shot by the police. Though, Owoeye said the gate was eventually opened for his brother, he blamed the doctor for insisting on seeing a policeman from the Mokola police division before he could commence treatment, a situation he believed contributed to the eventual death of his brother.
Owoeye said he was told that the police still met his brother conscious and he was able to point to the policemen who shot at him before he died. He did not believe the claim by the Police that his brother was shot while he was escaping, saying that the bullet penetrated the car from the rear and anyone familiar with the police station would know that it was not easy to make a turn at its gate as it is very narrow. He said it was the belief of the family that there was more to the story than meets the eye and the family would want justice to prevail over the killing of his brother.
He revealed that the deceased had fixed his wedding for March, while his fiancee, who is based in Canada was being expected home before the end of January for their introduction ceremony.
Meanwhile, reacting to the story, the state deputy Commissioner of Police, Mr Clement Adoda, said what really happened was that a stop-and-search patrol team stopped a green Mazda 626 with registration number PR 61 KJA driven by Adegbegha at about 5.00 a.m.
He added that the driver allegedly went wild when questioned about his identity and ownership of the car, which made the leader of the patrol team to detail a corporal to take him to the police station. Adoda stated further that on getting to the station, the corporal alighted to open the gate of the station and the driver seized the opportunity to take off. He said the corporal aimed at the vehicle’s tyre to stop the driver, but he still escaped, unknown to the police that the bullet had hit him.
He further disclosed that it was the security guard of Group Medical Hospital who came to the police station shortly after to inform the police that a man came to the hospital with a gunshot, where he later died while being treated. The Deputy Commissioner of Police, however, revealed that the corporal had been detained at the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID), Iyaganku, while the case was being investigated.
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World Freedom Index 2013: Canadian Fraser Institute Ranks Countries

  By Ryan Craggs  

Though Americans pride themselves on living in the "land of the free and the home of the brave," per the Star-Spangled Banner, The Canadian Fraser Institute has some news for the United States: It's not tops in the world when it comes to freedom.
That's right; the Canadian think-tank ranks the U.S. just seventh in its ranking of most and least free countries for 2013. According to the National Post, the list was published as part of a book compiled by the Fraser Institute and Germany's Liberales Institut, Towards a Worldwide Index of Human Freedom.
The Fraser Institute's website explains the publication's goal:

This project, sponsored by Canada’s Fraser Institute, Germany’s Liberales Institut, and the United States’ Cato Institute, focuses on creating the first comprehensive and conceptually consistent index of freedom, including economic freedom, and is based on the “negative” definition of freedom—in other words, the absence of barriers or coercion that prevent individuals from acting as they might wish.

According to the South China Morning Post, the index described personal freedom as freedom of speech, freedom of religion, discrimination against homosexuals and women's rights. Economic freedoms were understood to include property sovereignty and "individuals' engagement in voluntary transactions."
The metrics come from a composite score derived from data provided by the Economist Intelligence Unit, OECD and Freedom House, the National Post reports, with a 10 representing the highest score possible.
Africa and the Middle East didn't fair too well in the study, as the New Zealand Herald notes, with African or Middle Eastern countries making up eight of the bottom 10. Zimbabwe ranked dead last.
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BREAKING: Anti-Gay Pastor Withdraws From Inaugural Program

By Josh Israel

Pastor Louie Giglio

Louis Giglio, the anti-LGBT pastor who had been announced to perform the benediction at President Obama’s second inauguration, has been removed from the program, ABC News’s Jonathan Karl reported Thursday. The move came after ThinkProgress reported Wednesday that in the 1990s, Giglio had given a lengthy sermon in which he advocated for dangerous “ex-gay” therapy for gay and lesbian people, referenced a biblical passage often interpreted to require gay people be executed, and impelled Christians to “firmly respond to the aggressive agenda” and prevent the “homosexual lifestyle” from becoming accepted in society.

Update

CNN’s Eric Marrapodi is reporting that Giglio voluntarily withdrew from the program.

Update

A spokeswoman for Giglio sent ThinkProgress his statement:

January 10, 2014 [sic]
I am honored to be invited by the President to give the benediction at the upcoming inaugural on January 21. Though the President and I do not agree on every issue, we have fashioned a friendship around common goals and ideals, most notably, ending slavery in all its forms.
Due to a message of mine that has surfaced from 15-20 years ago, it is likely that my participation, and the prayer I would offer, will be dwarfed by those seeking to make their agenda the focal point of the inauguration. Clearly, speaking on this issue has not been in the range of my priorities in the past fifteen years. Instead, my aim has been to call people to ultimate significance as we make much of Jesus Christ.
Neither I, nor our team, feel it best serves the core message and goals we are seeking to accomplish to be in a fight on an issue not of our choosing, thus I respectfully withdraw my acceptance of the President’s invitation. I will continue to pray regularly for the President, and urge the nation to do so. I will most certainly pray for him on Inauguration Day.
Our nation is deeply divided and hurting, and more than ever need God’s grace and mercy in our time of need.

Update

Addie Whisenant of the Presidential Inaugural Committee said in a statement:

We were not aware of Pastor Giglio’s past comments at the time of his selection and they don’t reflect our desire to celebrate the strength and diversity of our country at this Inaugural. Pastor Giglio was asked to deliver the benediction in large part for his leadership in combating human trafficking around the world. As we now work to select someone to deliver the benediction, we will ensure their beliefs reflect this administration’s vision of inclusion and acceptance for all Americans.

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